Can postal workers do this in the town they work in?

Can they ask out residents out on dates if they are their mail carrier ?



Is it appropriate for postal workers to mix social/romance on the job ?



A mailman asked me out once and he dropped off a letter telling me to call him in a pink envelope - now everytime I go downtown or to the post office - he keeps staring at me and it makes me really uncomfortable. Maybe he has a crush on me but this is just awkwardCan postal workers do this in the town they work in?
Ok if he's your mail carrier he'd be in you neighborhood all day....not downtown or at the post office. Your story doesn't make sense.
That sounds just a little creepy to me %26gt;.%26gt;;



next time he delivers your mail, get his attention and say that it was sweet of him to ask, but you just aren't ready for a relationship yet. Denying him in the post office with customers and coworkers listening in will bring unwanted attention to the matter and cause problems. Especially if he's mentally disturbed already in some way.



If you're afraid he may be stalking you, let the police know and keep an eye out for erratic or dangerous behavior.Can postal workers do this in the town they work in?
Give him an answer! It's not appropriate but maybe he really likes you and took a risk.

"No thank you, I am not available."

Or "Sure."

Of course it's awkward, you haven't acknowledged it.

If you say "no" and he persists then I would report it to the PostMaster.

Sounds like you like being a victim, afterall, there are plenty of ways to send mail

without going to the downtown post office in person.

You're making a mountain out of a molehill.
I would say report him, but then you'd never get another piece of mail.



Tell him you'll go out with him but you won't have sex. You've infected the last three boyfriends with Herpes and you have decided it's not a nice thing to do after all!Can postal workers do this in the town they work in?
I don't know if there's a law against it. However, if it makes you feel uncomfortable then tell him politely that you're flattered that he asked you out but you're not interested. Hopefully, that will keep him from staring at you when you stop by.